I suggested to the mods over at the 'Crap to declare Benoit an off-limits topic like politics and religion. The myriad facets of it have become too divisive. Nobody can agree 100%, seemingly, and for the health of the board, I think healing will be better facilitated by letting the topic fade.

That said ... well-spoken, dear. You summed up what I'm feeling down to the marrow. Time is all we have now to heal the wounds. There is no getting over. There's just moving on.